Everybody for sure have crushes all the time. But the thing is, most of us don’t really know how to deal with it, especially when you think it’s really getting serious and that you have fallen for him/her. We ALWAYS do really stupid moves and we may ruin it all by “unconsciously” sending those wrong tiny hints to your crush. I just wanted to point out to how to deal with your crush and what NOT to do!

You may have many crushes, or even maybe a few. It doesn’t really matter. But you have first to determine how “deep” your crush is. Is it really worth fighting for? Or you’re sure it’s just a crush and will melt away someday like any other. If you think it’s really a deep one, then you should start to think really well how to deal with it. Other than that, don’t risk it and do such stupid moves that you will regret later.

If it’s a deep one, then think REALLY wisely. The most important thing is that you have to make sure that there is some kind of “mutual” feelings between you two. At least you should feel that he/she is accepting you in a nice way, not to end up living such a sour unrequited love. Don’t LIE to yourself. Sometimes you’re sure there is no way he/she is going to like you back, then just back off and avoid all the embarrassment and pain. Once you make sure of those mutual feelings, then start to do your moves.

Cause you don’t want to ruin it all from the start, you should really take care of the way you act and the words you say to your crush. It’s not like you should draw up a plan or something, on the contrary, you should let all happen naturally. DON’T be that pushy and impatient that you will let him/her really get bored with you. Just be like extra-nice to that someone and try to hint-out through the words and nice treatment. But not too much. You should also translate the way he/she acts to those moves you make. If you don’t find the quite expected response, then slow down. If this goes for like quite a long time, then you should probably be backing off as time goes on. One really important thing I want to say that when having a crush on someone, don’t have TOO MUCH hope. Act reasonable and expect that your crush may not respond the way you want. Always expect the worse so that you don’t end up broken-hearted. Okay you may be sad for a while, but come on, it’s just a CRUSH!

Remember…

DON’T:

• Be extra pushy. It may ruin it all from the very beginning. It’s really very annoying you can’t even imagine.
• Get attached to it. Okay you may feel like fighting for it, but keep in mind it may not work out and then it will be nobody’s fault.
• Hire a messenger! This is especially concerning guys; if you send someone, it doesn’t matter it’s a guy or a girl, to your crush, this will let the girl really have a bad first impression about you.
• Sit back and watch! Okay you don’t have to be pushy. But for God’s sake, don’t just do nothing and regret later that you didn’t. You should take the risk sometimes. **If it’s worth it for sure**
• Shake while talking to him/her. Have the greatest confidence of all when dealing with it.
  Simply, just act natural and be YOU! ;)

Author Doaa Medhat

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